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A Christmas Message of Hope
This time of year has a way of bringing both softness and ache to the surface. Christmas lights glow in windows, families gather, and traditions unfold—but for many, the season also carries memories of hardship, loss, and transition. I know this intimately. My own journey through two divorces, years of separation, and the deep work[…]
Navigating extended Family Expectations after Divorce: Finding Ease, Boundaries, and new Ways to connect
Holidays can feel especially stressful after divorce, when extended family members still hold ideas about how things “should” look. Their intentions are often loving, but their expectations may no longer fit your family’s reality. The good news: clear boundaries and thoughtful communication can help the season feel calmer, more intentional, and even more meaningful. Why[…]
Creating new Traditions: Reimagining the Holidays after Divorce
The holidays often arrive carrying a bundle of expectations. Some joyful, some heavy, and many shaped by the past. After divorce, families may find that old traditions no longer fit the way they once did. Kids grow, family systems shift, and what once felt warm can suddenly feel complicated or even painful. Yet this moment[…]
Managing Holiday Emotions with Compassion
Normalizing grief, navigating family gatherings, and caring for your emotional well-being The holiday season often brings a mix of emotions—nostalgia, hope, stress, and sometimes sadness or uncertainty. For anyone moving through divorce, co-parenting, family transitions, or simply a challenging year, the holidays can stir feelings that are tender and complex. These emotions are not only[…]
Who Does What in Divorce: Understanding the Key Roles
(Therapist vs. Financial Advisor vs. Lawyer vs. Mediator vs. Divorce Coach vs. Financial Neutral) Divorce can feel like you’re trying to assemble a team without knowing the rules of the game. Each professional has a distinct role. Knowing who does what can save you time, money, and emotional energy. Therapist: Emotions, patterns, and healing Supports[…]
Why the Collaborative Team makes Divorce easier
One of the most powerful parts of collaborative divorce is the team approach. Instead of facing everything alone, you have a group of caring professionals walking alongside you and your family. Each person brings their own strengths, so you are supported in every area that matters most. Your Attorneys: Steady Legal Guides Divorce comes with[…]
Collaborative Divorce vs. Mediation: What’s the Difference?
Both mediation and collaborative divorce keep families out of court. What’s different is the level of support. When people first learn there are alternatives to a traditional courtroom divorce, one of the first questions I hear is: “What is the difference between collaborative divorce and mediation?” It’s a great question, because while both processes are[…]
Collaborative Divorce: Choosing Growth over Battle
When my own marriages ended, I learned firsthand that divorce is never just about paperwork or dividing assets. It shakes the foundation of who you thought you were, what you believed about family, and how you imagined your future. For a long time, I carried the weight of guilt, shame, and fear—believing that leaving meant[…]
Divorce Timing and your 2025 Tax Filing: What you need to know!
When it comes to divorce, timing matters and not just for your emotional well-being or life plans. The date your divorce decree is signed also has a big impact on how you’ll file your taxes. With 2026 right around the corner, it’s worth taking a closer look now so you can plan ahead. Why the[…]
Diana Telfer Named to 2025 Utah Super Lawyer List
We are pleased to announce that Diana Telfer, founder of Telfer Family Law & Mediation, has been selected to the 2025 Utah Super Lawyers® list. This honor is especially meaningful because no more than five percent of attorneys in the state are recognized with this distinction. About Super Lawyers® Super Lawyers®, part of Thomson Reuters,[…]